What are we so afraid of?

What is it with people being afraid of what others think about you... being judged or in that case knowing what people really think about you??? I enjoy knowing what people think about me... positive and negative... but if you are going to judge me... tell me... not everyone else. I have come to a point that I can say everything I think about someone to there face... they may not want to hear it... so I will get the hint and respect that... but if they ask me... I am more than willing to express it. So if you have something to say to me... go ahead and say it... I will not try to excuse myself.. I will mearly try explain to you the situation... if you want to accept it... great... if not... there is nothing for me to do. So why are you afraid???... like my sister always said... "Si tu problema tiene solusion de que te preocupas... y si no... para que te preocupas?"

Mexican Goddess